The Interview
I watched Toni's Jake Zyrus interview and I identified with Jake's experience and story a lot. I found it so insightful that it also made me ask myself if I'm being truthful about who I am, for not making the decision to transition. Skipping the wordy introductions, here's a rundown: Name: J Age: 34 Gender identity: Lesbian (unexpressed Transgender) I always thought, when I was growing up, that I would, one day, become more like my father than my mother (physically). When I was young I did not question the idea that one day I will become a man. I was assured at the idea that one day, my body will go through changes that will fit how I identified myself. Whenever I imagined myself in the future I imagined a male character - a male doctor, painter, astronaut and all the other things I wanted to be when I grew up. Over time, the idea obviously disappeared and it was replaced with a considerable amount of constant disappointment and anxiety (from others a...